In our quest for happiness we must be sure that we don't settle for a
Playmate when God has a Soul mate waiting for us. Sometimes this is a
hard distinction to make. Playmates are tricky. They are so much fun
to be with that even the smartest of us will be fooled into thinking
this has to be our Soul mate. Worse yet too many of us attempt to make
a Soul mate out of a Playmate. Women Do this more often than men!!!!!!! STOP!
The danger of this is that later, after years of playing we will meet
our Soul mate, but it may be too late then. DUE to impatience we may have already made a
Life mate of our Playmate and created life-long bonds (emotional,
children, etc.) Or we may have been hurt from playing so hard that we
are in no shape ourselves to be anyone's anything. How can we
distinguish between the One, and just another one?
First, we must be open with ourselves about who we really are and what
our soul yearns for. Only you and God know what is truly in your heart
and mind. Only you know what will make you truly happy and whole.
In order to find your Soul mate you have to know you, first. You must
be willing to listen to that inner voice. And is that voice telling you
that the nerdy person you enjoy talking and sharing your thoughts with,
could be he? What about that friend who is always willing to go the
extra mile for you when no one else will.
Oh no! He's too short or too tall, balding or too hairy, and on and on?
Just too ordinary looking for me! Then there's that girl who makes you
feel so special when you're around her, but she doesn't match that ideal
you have conjured in your head. She's too tall, not slender enough, not
light or dark enough, not shapely enough, not attractive enough, and on
and on. She just couldn't be for me! So what if he or she doesn't look
like Denzel Washington or Janet Jackson! He or she is going to treat you like the jewel that you are.
Not only that, his or her soul and yours will commune in ways you never
imagined possible! In order to heed that voice, we have to put on the
back burner our own superficial thinking. Could it be that your inner
desire is for a truly genuine person with a good heart? If you enjoy
playing, stay on the playground. There are plenty of Playmates out
there to occupy your time. But don't spend too much time playing or you
may play your life away.
Eventually the playing loses its appeal and your soul begins to crave a
deeper, more meaningful connection. Your soul begins to crave your Soulmate.
Playmate when God has a Soul mate waiting for us. Sometimes this is a
hard distinction to make. Playmates are tricky. They are so much fun
to be with that even the smartest of us will be fooled into thinking
this has to be our Soul mate. Worse yet too many of us attempt to make
a Soul mate out of a Playmate. Women Do this more often than men!!!!!!! STOP!
The danger of this is that later, after years of playing we will meet
our Soul mate, but it may be too late then. DUE to impatience we may have already made a
Life mate of our Playmate and created life-long bonds (emotional,
children, etc.) Or we may have been hurt from playing so hard that we
are in no shape ourselves to be anyone's anything. How can we
distinguish between the One, and just another one?
First, we must be open with ourselves about who we really are and what
our soul yearns for. Only you and God know what is truly in your heart
and mind. Only you know what will make you truly happy and whole.
In order to find your Soul mate you have to know you, first. You must
be willing to listen to that inner voice. And is that voice telling you
that the nerdy person you enjoy talking and sharing your thoughts with,
could be he? What about that friend who is always willing to go the
extra mile for you when no one else will.
Oh no! He's too short or too tall, balding or too hairy, and on and on?
Just too ordinary looking for me! Then there's that girl who makes you
feel so special when you're around her, but she doesn't match that ideal
you have conjured in your head. She's too tall, not slender enough, not
light or dark enough, not shapely enough, not attractive enough, and on
and on. She just couldn't be for me! So what if he or she doesn't look
like Denzel Washington or Janet Jackson! He or she is going to treat you like the jewel that you are.
Not only that, his or her soul and yours will commune in ways you never
imagined possible! In order to heed that voice, we have to put on the
back burner our own superficial thinking. Could it be that your inner
desire is for a truly genuine person with a good heart? If you enjoy
playing, stay on the playground. There are plenty of Playmates out
there to occupy your time. But don't spend too much time playing or you
may play your life away.
Eventually the playing loses its appeal and your soul begins to crave a
deeper, more meaningful connection. Your soul begins to crave your Soulmate.
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